I certainly meant that her behavior is 100% unacceptable, that she has promised to stop yet failed to control herself, so where does that leave us.

This morning she was apologetic. I said "sorry doesn't cut it, you've been saying sorry for this over and over again, but you continue to violate my trust after promising to change.

So your apology is not accepted. I need action not words, you need to bring something to the table"

are y'all in therapy?

Is that y'all or all y'all? I understand there's a difference.

are y'all in therapy?

No she's refusing to consider it.

If I had meant all y'all, I could have said all y'all. Y'all in this case is just LS and his GF, where all y'all would mean everyone else here as well as LS and his GF. (side note, when I was in NY this october visiting family my sisters were cracking up at my aquired southern drawl and vernaculare.)

Even though it's possible that the entire y'all might need the therapy?

It's possible that all y'all need couples therapy, but all y'all aren't talking about YOUR relationship problems.

Isn't that what this place is? A new age group therapy experiment??

Made the mistake of actually thinking about the problem again, today. Nothing good came of that -- I think I want to vomit.

Hyde, go away. I want Jeykll back.

I thought Jekyl was back already?

jekyll is back. for the time being.

heights. We still both agree I need a second wife, preferably an
Amish girl who wants to go English but thinks Rumspringa is too
degenerate.

Amish concubines for Englishmen? Is that a thing?

I'm not seeing any downside to this.

My beau took his own life on 2/21. I'm not angry, just so very sad. I'm mostly still living my life, though mostly going through the motions. Yesterday I missed work for the first time since it happened. Just couldn't get out of bed, I think I was dreaming of him.

I don't have words either, just big feelings.

Pandora - I'm dreadfully sorry for your loss. The one thing this group can offer is a place to talk. I hope it's something that can help.

Gads. Strong condolences, pandora.

I want to talk about it, and I don't. I'm having big feelings, and struggling just to keep up with life.

The initial shock will do that. Hopefully you're at least eating and sleeping.