I certainly meant that her behavior is 100% unacceptable, that she has promised to stop yet failed to control herself, so where does that leave us.
This morning she was apologetic. I said "sorry doesn't cut it, you've been saying sorry for this over and over again, but you continue to violate my trust after promising to change.
So your apology is not accepted. I need action not words, you need to bring something to the table"
are y'all in therapy?
[#] Mon Feb 11 2019 14:39:50 EST from wizard of aahz
Is that y'all or all y'all? I understand there's a difference.
are y'all in therapy?
No she's refusing to consider it.
If I had meant all y'all, I could have said all y'all. Y'all in this case is just LS and his GF, where all y'all would mean everyone else here as well as LS and his GF. (side note, when I was in NY this october visiting family my sisters were cracking up at my aquired southern drawl and vernaculare.)
[#] Mon Feb 11 2019 16:00:04 EST from wizard of aahz
Even though it's possible that the entire y'all might need the therapy?
It's possible that all y'all need couples therapy, but all y'all aren't talking about YOUR relationship problems.
We really should all be in therapy together....
[#] Tue Feb 12 2019 10:22:44 EST from wizard of aahz
Isn't that what this place is? A new age group therapy experiment??
Made the mistake of actually thinking about the problem again, today. Nothing good came of that -- I think I want to vomit.
Hyde, go away. I want Jeykll back.
I thought Jekyl was back already?
jekyll is back. for the time being.
[#] Tue Feb 19 2019 19:04:21 EST from IGnatius T Foobar
heights. We still both agree I need a second wife, preferably an
Amish girl who wants to go English but thinks Rumspringa is too
Amish concubines for Englishmen? Is that a thing?
I'm not seeing any downside to this.
My beau took his own life on 2/21. I'm not angry, just so very sad. I'm mostly still living my life, though mostly going through the motions. Yesterday I missed work for the first time since it happened. Just couldn't get out of bed, I think I was dreaming of him.
I'm sorry for your loss.
When something like this comes along, we don't have the words, and wish we could say something to make the hurt go away for you.
I don't have words either, just big feelings.
[#] Thu Mar 07 2019 09:21:46 EST from wizard of aahz
Pandora - I'm dreadfully sorry for your loss. The one thing this group can offer is a place to talk. I hope it's something that can help.
Gads. Strong condolences, pandora.
I want to talk about it, and I don't. I'm having big feelings, and struggling just to keep up with life.
[#] Fri Mar 15 2019 15:14:46 EDT from IGnatius T Foobar
The initial shock will do that. Hopefully you're at least eating and sleeping.