And yes i know.. into the trash can this will go. or might even get
fully deleted, or even my account locked. So be it. Idiot. 

That's what the Trashcan is for. We don't delete messages here unless their presence creates a legal risk for me, and we don't disable user accounts unless they're deliberately trying to trash the place.

And once in a while someone does say "Wow IG, you were a little heavy handed there" and we put things back the way they were.

I doubt you'll get such a compassionate and introspective policy from any other place. I try, I really do, because I continue to believe that everyone deserves to be heard and every member of our community is a valuable voice.